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PRIORITIES AND VALUES, Part 4

Developing Godly Character

What is the difference between character and reputation? In the simplest terms, “reputation” is what other people believe you to be, and “character” is what God knows you to be. Your reputation may or may not reflect your character accurately because we are all experts at wearing masks in public. Depending on the mask we put on, we may be seen by people as being humble and easy to get along with, while in the privacy of our home, away from public scrutiny, we may be a tyrant.

Character is a part of our being that is shaped over time, being influenced by many things, like our parents, friends and acquaintances, education, relationships at school, work, and church. All those things and more work together to shape our character.

With so many negative influences around us, it’s frighteningly easy to develop character flaws, and once we have them they are hard to root out and remove. However, Christians are to work at developing a Godly character, no matter how difficult that may be within our culture. Through prayer, self-examination, application of the the Word of God, and a daily reliance on the Holy Spirit, we should be able to polish up the image of God within us and be perfect examples of what Godly character looks like.

Here’s how we do this.

1. Remove yourself from evil influences, Psalm 101:1-8

This psalm, written by King David, is his description of an ideal. It’s how David wanted to rule Israel, and how he wanted it to be ruled by his successors. In that sense it is similar to the book of Proverbs, with its admonitions about kingly conduct.

a. Determine to live righteously, vs. 1-3

The very first thing we notice about how David began his psalm is how often he used the phrase, “I will.” From the outset we sense the king’s determination to live in such a way as to demonstrate his loyalty to God. The motivation for this aspiration comes from David’s appreciation for God’s character; His acts of “love and justice.” The Lord’s treatment of His people, including David himself, brought David to this place of thanksgiving and determination to live right before God.

Kirkpatrick interprets verse 2 this way:

I will give heed unto the way of integrity, deliberately and of set purpose make whole hearted devotion to God and perfect uprightness towards men the rule of my conduct.

David’s absolute determination to live in a righteous manner, though, is balanced by a dependence of God

when will you come to me?

David, Israel’s Godly king, affirms his loyalty to God, not to the ways of the world:

I will set before my eyes no vile thing.

What an important lesson for the modern Christian to learn! Many of us long to live righteously, yet we sabotage our efforts by not approaching this noble goal with grit and determination and by flirting with the world every chance we get. Want to be holy? Then stop dwelling on unholy things! Find it hard muster the strength to live in obedience to God? Be determined, but make allowances for the enabling of the Holy Spirit. God will help you accomplish that which He wants from you.

b. Embrace integrity, reject evil, vs. 4-8

Part of pursuing righteous living and developing a Godly character is the rejection of “the deeds of faithless men.” Moffatt translates verse 4 like this:

Apostates and their practices I hate.

The king has realized how important it is to associate with the right people: people of integrity and honor. So vital was this, later on in the psalm, David makes the bold statement:

I will cut off every evildoer from the city of the Lord.

It’s not that David was better than other people, but “men of perverse heart” influence a man of pure heart negatively. The old saying is never wrong: “One bad apple spoils the whole barrel.” The liar, the proud, and the profane, all wreak havoc wherever they go, be it a family, a church, or some other organization. David wouldn’t tolerate them in his court, and the believer shouldn’t tolerate them in their lives.

2. Let God reshape your heart, Matthew 5:1-12

Matthew 12 begins an extended teaching of Jesus, His Sermon on the Mount. The whole thing takes in chapters 5 to 7 and involves Jesus’ ethical and spiritual teachings for Kingdom living. This is how people will live during the Millennial Kingdom; such living can’t be fully realized here and now. That fact, though, doesn’t render His teachings useless. As followers of Jesus, we are already living in the Kingdom, spiritually speaking, and it is our duty to live according to these teachings as far as it is possible for us to do so in this present world.

a. The context, vs. 1, 2

Jesus begins His discussion on Kingdom living with the Beatitudes, conditions of the heart that lead to the favor of God and the ability to receive certain blessings from Him. These are spiritual attitudes, really, that in most cases are polar opposites to worldly attitudes. But if we are to develop a Godly character, we must begin with a whole new way of thinking: attitude makes the difference!

b. Develop kingdom desires and attitudes, vs. 3-9

The world wants us to live one way, but God demands we live His way, and His way is frequently at odds with the world’s.

(1) God says the “poor in spirit” will be blessed. The world says the exact opposite. One who is “poor is spirit” is one who has realized their spiritual bankruptcy and have come to depend wholly on God. It has no thing to do with wealth or material possessions, although it could. Jesus wants His people to humbly come to depend on Him.

(2) God says that “mourners” will be blessed. Those who are “poor in spirit” are also those who know how to mourn. People mourn for many reasons: sickness, pain, bereavement, wounded pride, etc., but here Jesus has in mind the believer who mourns because they have seen how spiritual needy they really are. The world tells people to feel good about themselves and to practice positive self-esteem. Christians shouldn’t beat themselves up, but they should see themselves as God sees them: redeemed sinners who need a whole lot of help from above to live right!

(3) God says “the meek shall inherit the earth,” the world says be strong and take what is rightfully yours. A “meek” person is not some supine, carpet-like individual who lets everybody walk all over them. Rather, the one who is “meek” is one who is not resentful; who bears no grudge; who keeps no record of wrongs.

(4) God says those who desperately seek “righteousness” will find it. The world tells us to chase material and find emotional fulfillment in earthly things, like money and possessions. Out of the depths of spiritual poverty, mourning over the sin in our life, and focusing on God instead of our hurts, we are free to pursue righteousness; that is, the things of God that build a Godly character. We can’t find righteousness unless we are looking for it. And we won’t be looking for it if we are busy running after the things of this world.

(5) God says if we are “merciful” toward those who are hurting and in misery, then we will be treated with mercy. The world wants us to be selfish and associate only with those who will be of some benefit to us. Who wants to be around a downcast, lonely, hurting person? Jesus does, and so should we, if we want to be like Him. Developing a compassionate, loving, empathetic disposition takes work, but it will result in a divine disposition and you will be an answer to prayer for the one who is hurting.

(6) God says the “pure in heart” will see God. The person who is “pure in heart” is one who is sincere and honest.

(7) God says “peacemakers” are His children. A “peacemaker” is not to be confused with a “peacenik,” who protests all day, carrying some kind of placard, and who seldom showers or shaves. A Biblical peacemaker can only be one who has experienced the peace of God through being completely reconciled to Him.

(8) God says it’s a blessing to be “persecuted” for the sake of righteousness. This kind of persecution is not like be punished for some wrongdoing, but being treated unfairly or unjustly for living a Godly life and being obedient to God’s Word and will.

3. Cooperate with God’s grace, 2 Peter 1:2-11

a. Use God’s resources, vs. 2-4

Notice what Peter says believers have received from God:

To those who through the righteousness of our God and Savior Jesus Christ have received a faith as precious as ours.

Faith is the first resource God gives us to live for us. But we have more; faith is merely the beginning. Peter goes on to talk about more resources:

Grace and peace be yours in abundance… (vs. 2)

We can accomplish much more when we are at peace than when we are bound up with frustration and anxiety. Peace sets the mind free and enables us to see things clearly and in perspective.

But these things don’t come into the life of a believer by chance!

through the knowledge of God and of Jesus Christ our Lord. (vs. 2)

It’s not an exaggeration to say that we get many great and precious gifts as part of our new relationship with God in Christ, but those things come into our lives only as the Word of God is given great prominence in our every day thinking. As we read and study it more, we become aware of all that God wants from us, and all that He wants to do for us, if we would just yield our wills to His and let Him have His way with us.

Yes it all begins with faith, but it can’t end there. There is so much more in store for us if we would just do our part.

b. Move ahead in love and toward love, vs. 5-7

Verse 5 really gives us an idea about what is involved in developing a Godly character:

Make every effort to add to your faith…

Yes, it’s an effort to add to your faith all the qualities necessary to have a Godly character. It is our responsibility to supplement our faith with excellent qualities, each one added to the other one. The word “add” means “to supply” or to “super-add.” It’s a compound word, epichorigeo, meaning “to join to, to furnish one thing after another, so that there be no want or chasm.” It’s an odd word used in the Greek arts with the meaning “to lead a chorus.” So Peter wants his readers, and us, to add one thing to another after another in a beautiful order until the chorus is complete and we have developed a character that is in  harmony with that of God.

The whole process of becoming righteous and Godly reaches its completion when on top of every single virtue is added agape love. This kind of love is manifested, not only toward the Body of Christ, or toward our neighbors, but also toward God. When we are living and loving like that, we will have developed Godly character.

(c)  2011 WitzEnd

PRIORITIES AND VALUES, Part 2

On Being the Body of Christ

To the casual onlooker, a church may appear to be some kind of social institution or a club made up of like-minded individuals. To an outsider looking in, a church may be a fancy, ornate building where funerals and weddings take place. To a person with a secular mindset, a church may simply be an association with a particular set of beliefs in common. However, Christians know better. With even the tiniest bit of Biblical insight, the Church is seen as a number of things:

  • the bride of Christ (Ephesians 5:23);
  • the temple of the Lord (Ephesians 2:21, 22);
  • the household of God (Ephesians 2:18, 19);
  • the army of the Lord (Ephesians 6:10—13);
  • the assembly of the saints (Ephesians 2:19);
  • the workmanship of God (Ephesians 2:10);
  • the body of Christ (Ephesians 1:22, 23).

The Church is truly a remarkable thing, founded, built, and maintained by Jesus Christ Himself for the benefit of His people. Of all the metaphors used to describe it, the most fitting one must be “body of Christ.” Understanding what this foundational truth really means is vital in understanding our mission as believers.

1. Redefined relationships

a. Family values, reordered: Matthew 12:46—50

This brief, interesting incident is found in all three Synoptics (Mark 3:31—35; Luke 8:19—21). The point of this story is to demonstrate a spiritual truth: one’s relationship with Christ takes priority over any earthly relationship. A relationship with Jesus Christ changes everything. Or at least it should.

Jesus was teaching a large crowd, probably inside a packed house, and for some reason not revealed to us, His family wanted to speak to him. In fact, it seems they were “butting in,” or interrupting His work. Clearly His family’s spiritual values weren’t yet in alignment with His. In his account of the same incident, Mark gives us this added piece of information:

Then Jesus entered a house, and again a crowd gathered, so that he and his disciples were not even able to eat. When his family heard about this, they went to take charge of him, for they said, “He is out of his mind.” (Mark 3:20, 21)

When somebody tapped our Lord on His shoulder while He was teaching all those people, Jesus’ took advantage of the interruption to make a point about priorities:

He replied to him, “Who is my mother, and who are my brothers?” (Matthew 12:48)

This statement can be difficult for modern American readers to grasp with their emphasis on familial relationships. What was Jesus getting at? In no way was He diminishing His family, but rather He was giving the priority to His Heavenly Father and to fulfilling the Father’s will. Jesus’ remarkable answer indicates that spiritual ties are far more important than the ties of blood. No earthly relationship should be allowed to take precedence over obedience to the will of God. At the same time, Jesus taught something very profound about the nature of His Church: it is the family of God.

b. Renunciation, Luke 14:26

If anyone comes to me and does not hate his father and mother, his wife and children, his brothers and sisters—yes, even his own life—he cannot be disciple.”

This is a troublesome verse because of the word “hate,” which is so strong. But Jesus is not advocating the hatred of any anybody. In the context of this verse, this “hate” is not absolute but relative. The Jews viewed social customs as being very important, and if one broke from the accepted social customs of the day pertaining to things like family loyalty, such an action would have been interpreted by onlookers as “hatred.” Jesus could no more contravene the commandment to honor one’s father and mother any more than He could teach people to hate themselves, especially in light of His teaching to “love others as you love yourself!”

Jesus’ point here is a simple one. A believer’s choices in life—all of his choices—must be related to his commitment to Christ. No earthly relationship or tie should interfere with one’s service to the Lord.

c. Radical commitment, Luke 14:27—33

In the same way, any of you who does not give up everything he has cannot be my disciple. (verse 33)

More strong words from Jesus. Dietrich Bonhoeffer is known for saying many strong words himself, among them:

When Christ calls a man, He bids him come and die.

Is serving the Lord really a death sentence? Are you supposed to really give up “everything” to be be a Christian? What Jesus is saying is simply this: Look before you leap! Just like the man who wanted to build a tower needed to either count the cost or become a laughing stock, so the person who thinks they want to become a Christian needs to realize that following Christ is no “bed of roses” and that following Him requires commitment and dedication.

2. Christians are interdependent, 1 Corinthians 12:12—27

The Church is a single unit; it is the Body, not bodies, of Christ and the same Spirit works in the entire Body. However, the Church, just like a physical body, is a unity which also contains differences.

a. Unity of the Body, vs. 12—13, 27

The human body is a living organism that has many members or parts (arms, legs, eyes, ears, lungs, etc.); each member is different, yet each member contributes something vital to the whole body. Paul concludes that the Body of Christ is like a physical body. The unity of its members, like the unity of a physical body, is vital.

Church members come from a variety places: different walks of life, social classes, ethnic groups, each with different talents and interests, and yet the same spiritual life is present in them all. This spiritual life has the same source, provides the same energy, prompting them to fulfill the will of God both in their individual lives and in the corporate life of the Church.

b. Diversity in the Body, vs. 14—17

Now the body is not made up of one part but of many. (vs. 14)

Pastor, teacher, caretaker, pianist, evangelist, deacon, member—each has a role to fill in the Church, just like each part of a physical body has a role to fulfill. If a role is neglected, the whole body will suffer. The caretaker should not be upset that they are not a Sunday School teacher. The secretary shouldn’t fret because they are not an elder. The evangelist is not suited to function as the pastor. No, every member has a role to fulfill in the Church and the Church is better off for that!

c. Placement within the Body, vs. 18—26

But in fact God has arranged the parts in the body, every one of them, just as he wanted them to be.

This is the highest possible appeal for unity: all parts of the body are the result of God’s sovereign activity. God created the human body completely and perfectly. God created the spiritual body as it is and bestowed upon each member a particular function as it pleased Him.

Without all the members—or the parts—of the human body, it would be a shapeless lump of flesh. Yes, the lump would have a sort of unity, but no variety of functions. It is the existence and the interaction of all the parts of the body that give it meaning and purpose. Thus Paul makes his point:

As it is, there are many parts, but one body. (vs. 20)

3. Assume responsibility for one another, Galatians 6:1—10

In the closing verses of the previous chapter, Paul contrasted with works of the flesh and the fruit of the Spirit. Paul’s conclusion: Christians are supposed to be living Spirit-led lives.

So I say, live by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the sinful nature. Since we live by the Spirit, let us keep in step with the Spirit. (Galatians 5:16, 25)

In chapter 6, Paul is going to help us understand what it means to “keep in step with the Spirit.” It begins with care and concern with other members of the Body of Christ.

a. Restore the fallen, vs. 1

Brothers, if someone is caught in a sin, you who are spiritual should restore him gently. But watch yourself, or you also may be tempted.

Here is a good way to keep in step with the Spirit because it reveals the true character and spiritual maturity of a believer. This is the clearest evidence that one is living by the Spirit: the presence of agape love manifesting itself with concern for one who has lost his way.

Paul’s hypothetical situation is a simple one. The one “caught in a sin” does not mean that a person’s sin was discovered by somebody else, rather Paul has the idea that a believer is “caught unaware” by sin in himself. Technically speaking, this should never happen if a Christian is living by the Spirit as described in chapter 5, but human beings are weak and if a spiritual failure takes place in a believer, a more mature believer—one who is living by the Spirit—has a responsibility to help the damaged believer repair that damage. This restoration probably won’t be quick; it will more than likely be a process, which will further demonstrate the maturity of the one walking in step with the Spirit.

b. Interdependence and independence, vs. 2—5

…each one should carry his own load. (vs. 5)

While it is true that as members of the Body of Christ we function in relation to one another, always ready to offer a helping hand—spiritual or otherwise—to a brother or sister in need, the fact is according to verse 5 the duty of every Christian is to carry his own load. That is, we are to strive to not be a burden to the Church. There is no contradiction between verses 2 and 5:

Carry each other’s burdens… (vs 2)

Verse 2 is referring to burdens much too heavy for one to bear by himself. The Greek word bare means “heavy burdens.” The word in verse 5 translated “load” is phortion, a word that is best rendered “pack.” In other words, each Christian has his pack to carry—he has his own work to do, so let him take pride in how he does it.

c. Sowing and reaping, vs. 6—10

Here is the famous group of verses which teach what many refer to as the “law of reciprocity,” that is, you reap what you sow. But the context reveals much more.

Nevertheless, the one who receives instruction in the word should share all good things with their instructor. (vs. 6)

Christian love is to be manifested in caring for those who have fallen into sin, but it is also to be manifested in a more extensive way through fellowship. So the mature believer, having been taught the Gospel from other his teachers, had an obligation to share with them “all good things.” This is generally taken to mean material and financial support.

For if the Gentiles have shared in the Jews’ spiritual blessings, they owe it to the Jews to share with them their material blessings. (Romans 15:27)

With verse 7, it appears as though Paul is changing his topic. We have this impression because of the way verses 7 to 10 are generally taught: as a unity unto themselves. However, if they are read in connection to what Paul had just wrote, the real meaning becomes obvious:

Do not be deceived: God cannot be mocked. A man reaps what he sows. Whoever sows to please their flesh, from the flesh will reap destruction; whoever sows to please the Spirit, from the Spirit will reap eternal life. (vs. 7, 8)

Some believers may fail to support their teachers adequately, and perhaps they thought such negligence was not all that important and went unnoticed by God. Paul in very strong language informs them that this most certainly not the case! “Don’t think you can outwit God by being cheap with your teachers,” Paul in essence said. If you think short-changing those who have taught you the Gospel was no big deal, you are deceiving yourself.

God has written an unalterable Law of the Universe that has been proved to be true a million different ways from the beginning of time. The nature of the harvest is determined by the planting. This is a tremendous spiritual principle Paul has given us. It applies to every area of life, although what occasioned it was the idea of making sure you paid those who taught you God’s Word!

Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up. Therefore, as we have opportunity, let us do good to all people, especially to those who belong to the family of believers. (vs. 9, 10)

Paul ends this section of the chapter on a very upbeat note. No believer should neglect doing good because doing good is really sowing the kinds of seeds that result in great blessings. However, it may take a while between the sowing and the reaping. It may require great patience before the blessing is realized. But the word of encouragement is positive: if you sow good seed, you will be blessed. There is, however, a proviso: if we do not give up. Believers cannot simply give up doing good. We must be consistent in our acts of kindness, compassion, and in manifesting God’s love to others, even if the promised blessings are slow in coming. The harvest will come, but not necessarily in our time. Solomon’s words are worth remembering:

…a time to be born and a time to die, a time to plant and a time to uproot… (Ecclesiastes 3:2)

Our primary concern is as it should be: with other believers.

(c)  2011 WitzEnd

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