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Psalm 51 – A Plea For Pardon

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TEN PSALMS THAT WILL CHANGE YOUR LIFE

 A Plea for Pardon, Psalm 51

 

Introduction.  We have been walking together through our series, “Ten Psalms That Will Change Your Life.”  The first three studies traced the raw material of life as the Psalms records it – fear that drives us to the Rock that is higher than we, the ache of waiting when God seems silent, and the stubborn persistence of hope when circumstances mock it.  Today we come to a dark and personal experience:  The crushing weight of guilt and the desperate cry for pardon.  Psalm 51 is David’s prayer after the prophet Nathaniel confronted him with the truth of his adultery with Bathsheba and the arranged murder of her husband, Uriah.  This psalm is not a theoretical monologue of sin.  It is the sound a man makes when the covering is ripped off and he stands naked before a holy God.

Psalm 51 is given to the church not just as a historical relic, but as a pattern.  Every believer who has ever known the sting of deliberate disobedience can relate to what David wrote.  This psalm really is one man’s “plea for pardon.”  David doesn’t negotiate with God.  He doesn’t minimize what he did.  He doesn’t offer excuses.  He just pleads with God.

The setting of the plea.

The superscription ties this psalm to a specific moment:  “when Nathan the prophet came to him, after he had gone in to Bathsheba.”  The historical backdrop is 2 Samuel 11 and 12.  At the very height of King David’s power, he decided to stay home while his army went to war.  From the rooftop of his palace, he saw a woman taking a bath on her roof, he inquired about her, sent for her, and committed adultery with her.  Later, when she sent word that she was pregnant, David tried to cover the sin by bringing Uriah home from the front, hoping the soldier would sleep with his wife and claim the child as his own.  Uriah’s integrity frustrated the plan.  David then ordered Joab to place Uriah in the hottest part of the battle and withdraw all support so that he would die in battle.  The cover-up appeared successful until the child was born and David’s prophet Nathan arrived with a parable about a rich man who stole a poor man’s only lamb.  When David’s anger burned against the rich man, Nathan declared, “YOU are the man!”

This psalm is the aftermath of that brutal confrontation.  It is what repentance sounds like when it’s real.  Notice that David doesn’t begin with a defense of his motives or a list of mitigating circumstances.  He begins with God.

The opening cry for mercy.

Have mercy on me, O God, according to your unfailing love; according to your great compassion blot out my transgressions. [2] Wash away all my iniquity and cleanse me from my sin.  (Psalm 51:1, 2 | TNIV)

David opens with an appeal to the character of God rather than to any claim of his own.  He asks for mercy according to God’s steadfast love and according to the abundance of God’s compassion.  The ground of the plea is not David’s sincerity or future usefulness; it’s the revealed nature of the One to whom he speaks.

Steadfast love (hesed) is the covenant loyalty that will never let go.  Compassion is the deep, visceral pity that moves God toward the helpless.  David knows that if pardon is at all possible, it will come only because God is the kind of God who delights to show mercy.

He then asks for thorough cleansing.  The language David used here is extremely intense.  The verbs pile up because the stain of sin is so deep.  Sin is not a surface smudge that can be wiped away with a quick apology.  It has soaked into the very fabric of the soul.  David wants the record erased, the garment cleaned until it’s white, the contamination completely removed.  He doesn’t ask God to overlook the offense or to pretend like it never happened.  He asks God to deal with it completely.

This is the mark of a genuine plea for pardon – it rests entirely on God and asks for a radical, not a cosmetic remedy.

A confession that doesn’t hedge.

For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. [4] Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight; so you are right in your verdict and justified when you judge. [5] Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me. [6] Yet you desired faithfulness even in the womb; you taught me wisdom in that secret place.  (Psalm 51:3 – 6 | TNIV)

These verses form one of the clearest confessions in the whole Bible.  David says his “transgressions” and his “sins” are all he sees.  There is no fog of self-deception left.  The sin is not distant or theoretical; it stands in front of him 24/7.  He then makes a statement that, frankly, seems over-the-top to our modern ears:

Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight… (Psalm 51:4a | TNIV)

Of course, David had sinned against Bathsheba, Uriah, the child who would die, and against the nation whose king had abused his office.  Yet David understands that every horizontal offense is first and finally a vertical offense.  Sin is rebellion against the rightful King.  Until that’s faced, all other apologies remain incomplete.

He continues by acknowledging that God is justified when He speaks and blameless when He judges.  There is no courtroom drama in which David hopes to win on a technicality.  The verdict is already known, and it’s a righteous verdict.  Then comes the deepest cut:

Surely I was sinful at birth, sinful from the time my mother conceived me.  (Psalm 51:5 | TNIV)

It might sound like it, but David is in no way blaming his mother or offering a genetic excuse.  He is confessing a problem that runs deeper than a single episode of adultery and murder.  The root is buried deep in his very nature.  Sin is not an alien invader; it’s a native resident.  This is the doctrine of original sin stated in the language of a personal prayer.  A superficial confession deals only with symptoms.  A thorough confession faces the disease.

And yet, even here, David doesn’t despair.  He affirms that God delights in truth in the inward being and teaches wisdom in the secret heart.  The same God who exposes the depth of the problem is the God who can renew the inner person.  Confession isn’t an end in itself – it’s the only doorway to transformation!

A prayer for cleansing and renewal.

Cleanse me with hyssop, and I will be clean; wash me, and I will be whiter than snow. [8] Let me hear joy and gladness; let the bones you have crushed rejoice. [9] Hide your face from my sins and blot out all my iniquity.  (Psalm 51:7 – 9 | TNIV)

Having confessed, David now asks for what only God can give.  He prays to be purged with hyssop and washed whiter than snow.  Hyssop was the plant used in the ceremonial cleansing of lepers and in the Passover application of blood.  David is reaching for the strongest images of purification he can find in the sacrificial system.  He wants joy and gladness restored so that the bones God has broken may rejoice.  The broken bones are poetic, yet they are more than that.  They describe the internal collapse that accompanies unconfessed sin.  Guilt is not a light convenience.  It literally breaks the soul.

He asks God to hide His face from the sins and blot out all iniquities.  The comes the central petition of the psalm:

Create in me a pure heart, O God, and renew a steadfast spirit within me.  (Psalm 51:10 | TNIV)

The Hebrew verb translated “create” is the same word used in Genesis 1 for God’s bringing something out of nothing.  So, David isn’t asking for improvement or rehabilitation.  He asks for something totally new, never seen before.  The heart – the control center of the person – must be re-created; literally made band new.  The spirit that has been warped by self-will must be made steadfast.  He further prays that God will not throw him out of His presence or take the Holy Spirit from him.  This part of the prayer is something no Christian today can pray.  In the Old Testament economy the Spirit’s presence with the king was tied to the anointing for office.  David had already seen what happened to King Saul when the Spirit left him.  He rightfully trembled at that possibility.

Restore to me the joy of your salvation and grant me a willing spirit, to sustain me.  (Psalm 51:12 | TNIV)

Finally David asks for the restoration of the joy of God’s salvation and for a willing spirit to sustain him.  Notice the order here; it’s important.  Joy is not manufactured by willpower; it is restored by God.  A willing spirit is not the product of determined, gritted teeth; it’s a gift of divine enabling.  The man who once used his royal power to take a woman he wanted now asks for a spirit that delights to obey.

The vow of testimony and worship.

 Then I will teach transgressors your ways, and sinners will turn back to you. [14] Deliver me from bloodguilt, O God, you who are God my Savior, and my tongue will sing of your righteousness. [15] Open my lips, Lord, and my mouth will declare your praise. [16] You do not delight in sacrifice, or I would bring it; you do not take pleasure in burnt offerings. [17] My sacrifice, O God, is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart you, God, will not despise.  (Psalm 51:13 – 17 | TNIV)

True repentance doesn’t end in private relief.  It moves outward.  David promises that when God restores him, he will teach other transgressors the ways of God and sinners will return.  The man who fell from grace becomes a guide for others who have fallen.  He will sing out loud of God’s righteousness and declare His praise.  The lips that once ordered the death of another man and a cover-up will now open in public thanksgiving.

He then offers a profound insight into the nature of acceptable worship:

You do not delight in sacrifice, or I would bring it; you do not take pleasure in burnt offerings. [17] My sacrifice, O God, is a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart you, God, will not despise.  (Psalm 51:16, 17 | TNIV)

External ritual without internal reality is worthless.  God isn’t impressed by the volume of offerings when the heart remains proud.  What He receives is the shattered spirit that can no longer pretend.  This doesn’t abolish the sacrificial system; it relativizes it.  The blood of bulls and goats pointed forward to a greater cleansing.  The broken heart is the necessary condition for any sacrifice to mean anything.

The wider horizon.

May it please you to prosper Zion, to build up the walls of Jerusalem. [19] Then you will delight in the sacrifices of the righteous, in burnt offerings offered whole; then bulls will be offered on your altar.  (Psalm 51:18, 19 | TNIV)

Psalm 51 closes with a prayer for Zion.  David asks God to do good to Zion, to build up the walls around Jerusalem, and then the sacrifices will be pleasing.  Personal restoration is never truly private.  When the king is right with God, the people benefit.  When the leader is cleansed, the community is strengthened.  The final verses remind us that individual repentance has corporate implications.  A church or a nation is not renewed by programs alone but by the deep work of God in the hearts of its people, beginning with those who lead.

The human experience then and now.

Psalm 51 speaks with undiminished power because the human experience it describes hasn’t change.  We still invent elaborate cover-ups.  We still hurt others while trying to protect our reputation.  We still discover that the sin we thought we had managed is ever before us.  And we still need the same mercy.

The Gospel doesn’t bypass this psalm; it fulfills it.  The hyssop and the blood find their reality in the cross of Christ.  The clean heart is created by the regenerating work of the Spirit.  The joy of salvation is restored not by our resolve but by the finished work of the Savior who bore our iniquities.  When we plead for pardon today, we don’t come hoping that God might be merciful.  We come to a throne of grace where mercy has already been secured by the blood of the Lamb.

But the pattern remains.  We still begin with the character of God.  We still ask for a deep cleansing rather than a superficial adjustment. We still offer the sacrifice of a broken spirit.  And we still find that the God who confronted David through Nathan confronts us through His Word and Spirit – not to destroy us, but to restore us.

Living the plea.

What does it look like to live inside this psalm?  It means refusing the instinct to manage our image when sin is exposed.  It means letting the Spirit search the inward parts rather than settling for surface compliance.  It means believing that God can create something clean where only defilement existed.  It means allowing restored joy to overflow into testimony so that other transgressors hear that there is a way back.  It means measuring our worship not by the excellence of the performance but by the contrition of the heart.

David’s plea was answered.  The same God still hears and answers.  The human experience of guilt is real but it’s not final.  There is a pardon deeper than our failure, a cleansing more thorough than our stain, and a joy that can be restored even to bones that once were broken.  The plea for pardon is not the end of the Christian life.  It’s the doorway into the ongoing life of grace.

Forgiveness

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A Quality of Discipleship – Forgiveness

Scripture Reading:  Matthew 18:21 – 35

 Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?  (Matthew 18:33 | TNIV)

 

Introduction.  As we continue our series on the Qualities of Discipleship, we come to today to the fourth quality:  Forgiveness.  Discipleship is transformation into the likeness of the Lord Jesus Christ.  One of the most distinctive marks of a genuine disciple is the quality of forgiveness.  In our culture of offense and grievance, forgiveness is a radical testimony to the Gospel.

The magnitude of the debt, Matthew 18:23 – 25.

“Therefore, the kingdom of heaven is like a king who wanted to settle accounts with his servants. [24] As he began the settlement, a man who owed him ten thousand bags of gold was brought to him. [25] Since he was not able to pay, the master ordered that he and his wife and his children and all that he had be sold to repay the debt.”  (Matthew 18:23 – 25 | TNIV)

In this parable, the king represents God, and he is settling accounts.  One servant owes “10,000 bags of gold” – in Greek, 10,000 talents.  A talent equaled about 20 years’ wages for a day laborer.  So, 10,000 talents represents roughly 200,000 years of wages – an unpayable sun, deliberately hyperbolic and completely beyond human ability.  This pictures the magnitude of our debt to God.  Our sins – every thought, word, and deep that falls short of His glory – have created a debt we can never repay.  We may minimize our sins, but the Bible presents them as an infinite offense against an infinite God.  This was something David understood.  Look down at Psalm 51:4 –

For I know my transgressions, and my sin is always before me. [4] Against you, you only, have I sinned and done what is evil in your sight; so you are right in your verdict and justified when you judge.  (Psalm 51:3, 4 | TNIV)

Understand this:  Our rebellion is cosmic treason against the Lawgiver.

The consequences are severe:  The master orders that the man, his wife, his children, and all he had be sold.  This reflects the just judgment of God.  Paul tells us in Romans 6:23 that “the wages of sin is death.”  Eternal payment is what we deserve.  No partial payment is possible.  No good works, religious activity, or self-reformation can settle the account.  As the hymn writer wrote:

Could my tears forever flow, could my zeal no respite know, these for sin could not atone; Thou must save, and Thou alone.

Have you truly reckoned with the magnitude of your debt?  In our self-justifying age, we compare ourselves to others.  Bu the standard is the thrice-holy God.  When the prophet Isaiah saw the Lord high and lifted up, he cried:

“Woe to me!” I cried. “I am ruined! For I am a man of unclean lips, and I live among a people of unclean lips, and my eyes have seen the King, the Lord Almighty.”  (Isaiah 6:5 | TNIV)

The first step in true discipleship is recognizing that we are bankrupt debtors with no means to pay.  Until we grasp the enormity of our sin, we will never appreciate the wonder of forgiveness or be motivated to extend it to others.

God initiates the settlement.  One day every person will give an account.  Now, for the believer, that accounting was settled at the Cross.  For those outside Christ, the debt remains unpaid.

The forgiveness of the debt, Matthew 18:26, 27.

“The servant fell on his knees before him. ‘Be patient with me,’ he begged, ‘and I will pay back everything.’ [27] The servant’s master took pity on him, canceled the debt and let him go.’”  (Matthew 18:26, 27 | TNIV)

The scene changes dramatically.  The servant falls on his knees and begs for patience, promising to repay everything.  His plea is not for cancellation but simply for more time.  He still thinks he can work it off.  That is the natural human response to Holy Spirit conviction:  “I’ll do better.  Give me another chance.”  But the debt is too great.  No amount of patience would ever enable repayment.

But, the master takes pity – from the Greek splanchnizomai, meaning moved with the deepest compassion.  He “canceled the debt” and let him go.  He wiped the slate clean completely and freely.

This  is a breathtaking picture of the Gospel.  God the Father, moved with compassion, has canceled our unpayable debt through the atoning work of His Son.  Colossians 2:13, 14 declares:

When you were dead in your sins and in the uncircumcision of your sinful nature, God made you alive with Christ. He forgave us all our sins, [14] having canceled the charge of our legal indebtedness, which stood against us and condemned us; he has taken it away, nailing it to the cross.  (Colossians 2:13, 14 | TNIV)

The Cross is where our debt was paid – not by us, but by the perfect Servant who bore the full weight of our sin.

I want you to notice something astounding – the freeness of this forgiveness.  The servant didn’t earn it.  It was pure grace.

For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this is not from yourselves, it is the gift of God— [9] not by works, so that no one can boast.  (Ephesians 2:8, 9 | TNIV)

The king cancels the whole debt.  That’s full forgiveness; complete release.  This is the heart of the Christian message:  Forgiveness of sins is available to all who come to Christ in repentance and faith.

For the disciple this isn’t just past tense.  We live daily in the reality of forgiven debt.

If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness.  (1 John 1:9 | TNIV)

The magnitude of the debt magnifies the magnitude of the mercy.

Have you experienced this cancellation?  If you’ve fallen on your knees before the King and received the free forgiveness that is in Christ alone, then you know the joy being set free from the power and penalty of sin.

Therefore, there is now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus…  (Romans 8:1 | TNIV)

 That’s the second great truth:  The debt has been forgiven – completely, compassionately, and permanently for all who trust in the Savior.

The terms of forgiveness, Matthew 18:28 – 34.

“But when that servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred silver coins. He grabbed him and began to choke him. ‘Pay back what you owe me!’ he demanded. [29] “His fellow servant fell to his knees and begged him, ‘Be patient with me, and I will pay you back.’ [30] “But he refused. Instead, he went off and had the man thrown into prison until he could pay the debt. [31] When the other servants saw what had happened, they were greatly distressed and went and told their master everything that had happened. [32] “Then the master called the servant in. ‘You wicked servant,’ he said, ‘I canceled all that debt of yours because you begged me to. [33] Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?’ [34] In anger his master handed him over to the jailers to be tortured, until he should pay back all he owed.  (Matthew 18:28 – 34 | TNIV)

The parable doesn’t end happily.  There’s a devastating turn.  The forgiven servant finds a fellow servant who owes him 100 denarii – or about three months wages.  That’s not an insignificant sum, but pretty trivial compared to the 10,000 talents!  Yet this man who has just received infinite mercy grabs this fellow, chokes him, and demands payment.  The response is refusal.  No pity, no mercy is extended.  The man throws him into prison.

This is the heart of the warning.  The terms of forgiveness are clear:  Those who have been forgiven must forgive much.

Shouldn’t you have had mercy on your fellow servant just as I had on you?  (Matthew 18:33 | TNIV)

The servant received mercy; he was obligated to show it.

Jesus teaches that forgiveness is not a one-time transaction we receive and then ignore in our relationships.  It is a quality of discipleship that must characterize our entire lives.  The unmerciful servant reveals that he never truly appropriated the master’s forgiveness.  His heart remained hard.  True reception of God’s grace produces a gracious spirit.  Listen to what Jesus taught in Matthew 6:14, 15 –

For if you forgive others when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. [15] But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.  (Matthew 6:14, 15 | TNIV)

An unforgiving heart is incompatible with a forgiven heart.

Verse 35 drives home the point:

“This is how my heavenly Father will treat each of you unless you forgive a brother or sister from your heart.”  (Matthew 18:35 | TNIV)

Forgiveness must be “from your heart” – an inward release of the debt, a choice to no longer hold an offense against another person, empowered by the Spirit.

What does this mean practically for disciples today?  First, we must regularly examine our hearts for unforgiveness.  Is there someone you’re choking – emotionally, relationally, spiritually?  A parent who failed you?  A church member who gossiped?  An enemy who wronged you?  The debt they owe you, however large it feels, in a hundred denarii compared to the 10,000 talents God has forgiven you.  To withhold forgiveness is to deny the Gospel we claim to believe.

Second, forgiveness doesn’t mean denying the reality of the sin or forgoing justice where appropriate.  But it does mean releasing the personal right to revenge, bitterness, and the demand for repayment.  Remember what Paul wrote:

Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.  (Ephesians 4:32 | TNIV)

Third, this quality of discipleship is essential for the health of the church.  Matthew 18 is all about community life.  Unforgiveness destroys fellowship, grieves the Spirit, and destroys our witness.  A forgiving church is a powerful testimony that the Gospel changes people.

Lastly, remember that forgiveness is not always instantaneous or easy.  It’s sometimes a process, a repeated choice, especially in cases of deep wounding.  But it is always possible through the power of the Holy Spirit who sheds abroad the love of God in our hearts (Romans 5:5).  We forgive not because the other person deserves it, but because we have been forgiven infinitely more.

Conclusion.  The quality of forgiveness is  not an optional mark of true discipleship.  The magnitude of our debt should drive us to our knees in repentance.  The forgiveness of that debt should fill us with gratitude and joy.  And the terms of that forgiveness should compel us to extend the same mercy to others – from the heart.

As we close today, search your heart.  Is there a debt you are still holding on to?  In light of the Cross, will you cancel it and choose the path of the merciful?  The same King who canceled your canceled your debt will give you the ability to cancel the debts of others.  May we be known for radical, Christ-like forgiveness that points the world to the Savior.

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