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The Prison Epistles, Part 10

The Key to Survival

A Study of Philippians 1:27-2:4

The first part of Philippians is a discussion of Paul’s personal situation and that of the Gospel in Rome.  Beginning with 1:27, Paul takes the spotlight off himself and shines it on his readers.  He is about to give a series of strong exhortations centering around the theme of Christian obedience, both Christ’s obedience (2:8) and that of the Church (2:12).

As we study Paul’s writings, it becomes obvious that in Paul’s mind, one of the greatest virtues a believer may possess is obedience, whether that believer is a servant or a leader.  Obedience to the Gospel is what Paul shares with his readers and it is a common fellowship all believers share.  Whether we stand behind the pulpit or sit in front of it, all of us are to be obedient to the Word of God.

1.  Steadfastness, unity, and fearlessness, 1:27-30

Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in one spirit, contending as one man for the faith of the gospel without being frightened in any way by those who oppose you. This is a sign to them that they will be destroyed, but that you will be saved—and that by God.  For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe on him, but also to suffer for him, since you are going through the same struggle you saw I had, and now hear that I still have.

Another way to read the first phrase is:

Only continue to exercise your citizenship in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ.

The verb Paul uses is politeuesthe, and likely what Paul has in mind is this:  the Philippians (not just the church, but the citizens of that city in general) tended to be proud of their status as Roman citizens.

They brought them before the magistrates and said, “These men are Jews, and are throwing our city into an uproar by advocating customs unlawful for us Romans to accept or practice.”  (Acts 16:20-21)

But for members of the Church, even though they geographically lived in a Roman city, their true citizenship was in heaven, and their true allegiance should have been to the laws of heaven.  But the word  politeuesthe has a greater meaning.  Originally it meant “to be guided by certain regulations and laws.”  (Nielson)  Philippi was, in reality, an outpost of Rome, literally, it was bit of Rome on foreign soil.  The correlation to the Church’s position on earth cannot be missed here.  Just like Philippi was a piece of Rome in the Mediterranean, so the Church is a piece of heaven on earth.  And members of the Church are obligated to keep both the laws of Heaven and the laws of Rome, but the laws of Heaven take precedence.  That this is the case is borne out in Paul uses of the word mononon, “Whatever happens” (NIV), “Only” (KJV).  It is emphatic, meaning Paul is declaring:  “Let attention to your heavenly citizenship be supreme, no matter what.”

His readers are to “stand firm.”  The Greek is stekete, and is a military term suggesting a soldier was to remain resolute and obedient and that retreat was impossible in spite of enemy onslaughts.  The Philippians were to do this “in one spirit.”  The “spirit”, pneumati, is seen by some as referring to the Holy Spirit, although it is more likely, given the context, Paul is simply referring to a “common spirit” of unity.   MacLaren makes it clear, however, that in the Body of Christ, this “common spirit” is not really possible without the Holy Spirit.  So, we might say that the “common spirit” involves believers getting along with other believers, enabled by the Holy Spirit to do so.

The unity is described by Paul as:

  • contending as one man, NIV
  • striving together with one accord, TNIV

The latter might be more accurate, for the Greek is mia psyche, or “with one soul.”  That is about as unified as human beings can be!  As Hendriksen notes, the unity “envisioned is one of striving or struggling side by side, like gladiators.”  What should be noted, and rarely is, is that this struggle is not against a foe but for the Gospel.   In this part of Scripture, at least, Paul is concerned not primarily with fending off attacks, but mainly in spreading the Gospel of Christ, which is the story of God’s wondrous redemptive truth, centered on the work of Christ, on the Cross, for believer.  This is a powerfully motivating truth which is so often over looked by so many.  The Gospel is to be actively spread, both in word and deed; the Kingdom of God is to advance.

Is this wonderful mission easy?  Paul seems to anticipate this with verse 28:

without being frightened in any way by those who oppose you.

In the Greek, “frightened” (pturomenoi) was a term originally used to describe a frightened animal, like a startled or shy horse.   There is no excuse for believers to be scared or frightened as they share their faith with others because the power of God, through the Holy Spirit, ought to compel them to do so.  Similarly, being shy or afraid to speak up for your Christian faith is disobedient to the will of God, and disobedience is a sin, for it disrupts the unity Paul is writing about.  J.B. Philips paraphrases this phrase as only a Brit can:

and not caring two straws for your enemies.

The enemies, in this case, were probably a mixture of hostile Jews and the pagans of Philippi.  The only way the Church can stand against any foe, from within or without, is to be courageous and unified and fight for the Gospel.

A Church that is strong in it’s faith and unified in it’s membership in the face of it’s enemies, is proof that those who oppose that Church are, in fact, on the wrong side, are enemies of God and will ultimately fail because the Church is a force that cannot be stopped.   When a believer stands tall, secure in his faith in the face of any opposition, that is proof that God is working both in that individual and in the Church.

Verse 29 is a shocking verse to some:

For it has been granted to you on behalf of Christ not only to believe on him, but also to suffer for him.

Salvation is a privilege granted only to believers, and that is the privilege we love to talk about and sing about.  However, there are not too many hymns about the other privilege believers have been granted:  to suffer for Christ.

The concept of suffering as a good thing shouldn’t surprise us in light of what the author of Hebrews wrote:

In bringing many sons to glory, it was fitting that God, for whom and through whom everything exists, should make the author of their salvation perfect through suffering.  (Hebrews 2:10)

If our Savior was made perfect through suffering, it makes perfect sense that we, too, are perfected through suffering for Him.  Job caught a glimpse of this long before the coming of Christ into the world:

But he knows the way that I take;
when he has tested me, I will come forth as gold.  (Job 23:10)

This is such an important concept, and one that is often so misunderstood.  Suffering is not a mark of God’s anger.

To the Philippians, suffering was the marriage gift when they were espoused to Christ:  the bounty when the enlisted in his service.  Becoming one with him, they entered into the fellowship of his suffering.  (M.R. Vincent)

Paul concludes the paragraph with an encouraging equation of his own suffering (he was in prison) for the Gospel with the Philippians and their struggles.  Acts 16 details the kind of suffering the Philippians had seen Paul experience in their city, and through Epaphroditus they now heard about his present sufferings.  This  must have been a great encouragement for these people; to hear that they and the great apostle himself are suffering the same way for the same cause.  That is unity.

2.  The essence of obedience, 2:1-4

If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any fellowship with the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and purpose. Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit, but in humility consider others better than yourselves. Each of you should look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.

The idea of unity is carried on in chapter 2 and hearkens back 1:27,

Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in one spirit, contending as one man for the faith of the gospel.

Paul lists four reasons for unity, each introduced by the word “if.”  They are:

  • If you have any encouragement from being united with Christ.   Paul uses the Greek paraklesis to describe this benefit of being united with Christ.  We translate that word “consolation” or “exhortation” or “encouragement,” as in the NIV.
  • If any comfort from his love.  This literally means “incentive.”  Christ’s love for us should motivate us to be “one in purpose.”
  • If any fellowship with the Spirit.  This phrase has evoked a difference of opinion among scholars because pneumatos an be taken either subjectively or objectively.  The NIV has taken it objectively, that is, we have a common fellowship with the Holy Spirit.  Subjectively it is the Holy Spirit that produces the fellowship we should be enjoying as believers.
  • If any tenderness and compassion.  “Tender affections and compassions” is a better way to read this phrase.  These emotions ought to exist between members of the Church.

Paul makes it clear that if his friends in Philippi have all those things in their favor, then they should be able to live and function in a divine unity.  Obviously, with verses like this one, the congregation at Philippi was very close to Paul:

Therefore, my brothers and sisters, you whom I love and long for, my joy and crown, stand firm in the Lord in this way, dear friends!  (4:1)

The essence of obedience, implied by Paul, is that since we have been the recipients of so  much from Christ, we should act like Him toward our brothers and sisters.  Paul goes on to list four things believers can do to accomplish this:

  • Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit.  This clause is incomplete in the Greek, and the word phronountes could be taken to mean, “be of one mind.”  The idea Paul is putting out is everything should be done in humility and without any pride.
  • In humility consider others better than yourselves. Paul may have in mind the problem of Euodia and Syntyche:

I plead with Euodia and I plead with Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord. (4:2)

  • There was a problem of disunity to be sure in this church.  But of note, is that this should be done in humility.  There are believers who run around doing all manner of good things for their brothers and sisters, but they make sure everybody in church knows about it!  Paul says NO to that.
  • Look not only to your own interests, but also to the interests of others.   This verse is in the imperative, meaning the good of others should be as important a goal in the believers life as what is good for their own life.  Believers should actively seek to find ways to better other people.

It becomes evident that Christians are to almost fade into the background as they obey and emulate their Lord.  Paul’s admonitions here echo the teachings of Jesus that the road to greatness among Christians is service to others.  Frank Thielman offers some practical ways to live like this as he paraphrases Dietrich Bonhoeffer.  Christians should:

  • Hold their tongues and refuse to speak an ill word against a Christian brother;
  • Cultivate the humility that comes from the knowledge that we are all sinners and live in His sight by His grace;
  • Take notice of what others need;
  • Refuse to consider their time and calling so valuable that they cannot be interrupted to help with unexpected needs, no matter how small or menial;
  • Bear the burden of their brothers and sisters in the Lord, both by preserving their freedom and by forgiving their sinful abuse of that freedom;
  • Declare God’s Word to their fellow believers when they need to hear it;
  • Understand that Christian authority is characterized by service and does not call attention to the person who performs the service.
(c)  2008  WitzEnd

The Prison Epistles, Part 9

Introduction to Philippians

In Paul’s letter to the Philippians, we find something more than just doctrine and theology.  It goes without saying that doctrine and theology are essential for the Christian to know, especially in this day with so much false teaching flooding the Church.  Some Christians feel intimated by those two words, and even threatened by them.  They feel doctrine and theology are the purview of preachers and doctors of theology.   But doctrine and theology shape how Christians view the world in which they live and how they relate to their heavenly Father.

While Philippians is overflowing doctrine, there is much more “experience” and heart in it than in any other epistle.  What Paul has done in this letter is to expose the proper Christian experience in a world full of hardship and disappointments.  In it, we read of the all the resources available to the believer to get the most of his relationship with God yet living in a sinful world.  As Darby has succinctly observed:

God has condescended to furnish us with this beautiful picture of the ideal Christian life, as well as the truths that enlighten us, and the rules that direct our walk.

The special significance of Philippians in 21st Century America

The quest for peace is on!  In order find peace of mind and a break from the hustle and bustle that characterizes our society today, Americans are swallowing tons of tranquilizers.  In addition to the drugs we consume, there are the tons of so-called “self-help” tranquilizing books that overflow bookstore shelves, promising to return sanity to our lives.   These overnight best-sellers, written perfect looking men and women who grace their covers with their sparkling, toothy smiles, contain the “keys” to finding happiness, fulfillment, joy, and peace in life.

However, these kinds of things are troublesome for a number of reasons:

  • First, whenever the drug or “key” fails to comport with reality, whatever peace of mind they bring will not last;
  • Second, no matter how hard we work at it, we cannot ignore sin.  No amount of medication, positive thinking or mental push-ups can deal with the sin problem that plagues us all;
  • Third, the only true and lasting peace is the peace that comes from God.  This kind of peace cannot be bought, learned, or discovered using pills, booze, books, or self-talk;
  • Last, those trusting in tranquilizers, whether books, pills, music, relationships, or vacations are likely operating on the false assumption that spiritual turmoil is an evil in itself.  But it is usually better to face reality than to try to escape it.  Evasion or escapism leads to spiritual apathy.  Confronting the facts about yourself is the only course which can lead to “the peace of God that passes all understanding.”

If a person wants to know true and lasting peace, they must turn to God, and more specifically to Philippians 4:7,

And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

This short letter was written by a man who had found that peace.  Paul had found that most elusive of life’s treasures.  It’s not money.  Or fame.  Or family.  Or youth.  Paul had found happiness.  Listen to him:

Rejoice in the Lord always. I will say it again: Rejoice!  (4:4)

I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength. (4:11-13)

Those are amazing verses, especially in light of the fact that they were written by a man in prison.  So, the reasons for studying this little gem are:

  • It reveals the secret of true happiness.  How this happiness can be obtained is clearly revealed in this letter.
  • It reveals the man who had learned this secret.  Philippians is one of the most personal of all Paul’s letters.
  • It reveals the Christ who taught Paul this secret.  Christ is our pattern and our enabler, and He is portrayed in this letter in the greatness of His condescending love.

The Prison Epistles, Part Six

The Glorious Church, Part One

If we were to divide up Ephesians into its basic thematic divisions, we would notice that Paul follows a very familiar patter he used in Galatians, Romans, and Colossians.  Paul begins with the grand theological themes of salvation and God’s redemptive plan for His creation and the role of the Church in that plan.  Then he moves into the practical implications of that teaching.  But theology is not dropped all together, but rather it is interwoven with moral and ethical exhortations.  This is what we see from chapters 4-6.

Clearly, and significantly, the theme of unity in the Church begins this section.  This unity, though, is not external and mechanical, but internal and organic (Hendriksen).  It is not forced upon but rather proceeds from within the living organism we call the Body of Christ.  This kind of unity bears absolutely no resemblance to the current wave of ecumenism, which seeks to eradicate all denominational barriers and create one “super-church.”

If we could summarize the message of the first six verses, it might look like this:

The church is spiritually one, so act spiritually as one.

As individuals come to faith in Christ, all barriers that once existed between them disappear and they become one in Christ.  Paul said this in Galatians 3:26-28–

You are all sons of God through faith in Christ Jesus, for all of you who were baptized into Christ have clothed yourselves with Christ. There is neither Jew nor Greek, slave nor free, male nor female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus.

These united believers constitute the Church, which was called into being and is maintained by Christ.  But the Church does not exist for itself; it has a function in the world and Paul spends some time discussing this function.  Markus Barth wrote:

The Church has its place and function between Christ and the world.  She is not the mediator of salvation; she is not the savior of the world; she is not even a redemptive community.  But she knows and makes known the savior and salvation.

The Church is not made up of people with similar views on certain things.  It is the assembly of God, of those in whom He dwells and the unity is a unity based on that and nothing else.  A unity based on a creedal statement or on a particular doctrine of man is doomed to failure.

In order for the Church to fulfill its mission in the world, there must be unity within its membership.  However, this unity must not be viewed as believers being a mere “cog in the wheel.”  Personal expression and individual expression is clearly encouraged in verses 7-12, 16.  Finally, this unity is not an end in itself; it is not a superficial or artificial “togetherness.”  Our unity is to demonstrate to an unbelieving world what true unity and agape love looks like.

1.  The plea for unity, 4:1-3

As a prisoner for the Lord, then, I urge you to live a life worthy of the calling you have received.  Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love.  Make every effort to keep the unity of the Spirit through the bond of peace.

What exactly is Paul referring to when writes “then?”  Wood and others believe Paul is referring certain references he made throughout chapters 1-3 to spiritual privileges and the Christian’s calling (see, for example, 3:6, 12, 14-19).

As if to focus his readers attention on the seriousness of the way they live their lives, Paul repeats the fact that he is a “prisoner for the Lord.”  He urges them to live lives worthy of their calling.  The word “worthy,” axios, means literally “bringing up the other beam of the scales” and suggests an equivalence.   There needs to be a balance between one’s confession of faith and one’s practice of that faith.   The gist of verse one seems to be that the Ephesians have been graciously invited into a new relationship with God but have not yet brought their lifestyles into accord with that new life.

Christians need to always do what is in keeping with their vocation.  By definition it is a calling they have received, not one they have acquired by any self-effort.  What is the calling of every Christian?  All Christians share a divine call to be part of the Church, the called-out company (eklesia).

The four graces of unity, 4:2

Walking in a worthy manner–living a balanced Christian life–provides the atmosphere for unity and as unity flourishes in the Church, four graces or virtues will become evident.  These graces are not naturally inherent in human beings, but they are gifts of the Holy Spirit (Galatians 5:22-23).

Humility.  This is a favorite word of Paul’s; he uses it five times in his writings.  The Greek word tapeinophrosyne is “a thankful sense of dependence upon God” and is the exact opposite of pride and conceit.  Taylor has stated that the stance of a humble person is one looking upward.  Westcott remarked:

The proud man only looks at that which is below him, and so he loses the elevating influence of that which is higher.

Gentle.  Another way to translate this word is considerateness.  The KJV translates praotes as “meekness,” but is a much more powerful word than that.  Hodge says it is that unresisting, uncomplaining disposition of mind, which enables us to bear without irritation or resentments the faults and injuries of others.  There is an element of restraint  that is in that word so it “denotes strength and not supine weakness”  (Wood)

Patience.  The old word is “longsuffering” in the KJV and makrothymia means “the enduring, unweariable ‘spirit’ which knows how to outlast pain or provocation in a strength learnt only at the Redeemers feet” (Moule).  It is the opposite of “a short temper,” and is a truly divine characteristic because human nature is not like that.  Patience, according to Paul, finds perfect expression in “bearing with one another.” To bear with another means to literally “hold him up,” and suggests the ability to put up with his faults and idiosyncracies because we have our own.  We are to bear with each other in “love,” and that agape love is a recurring theme in Paul.

With these three graces in play within the Church, the world outside of the Church can see what true Christian love is like.  That’s why unity in the Church is so important.  Unity outside of the Church is non-existent, yet this is what all people crave.   Beare concludes:

The harmony within the fellowship, which is the harbinger of universal harmony, can be maintained only in the measure that all Christians practice the virtues here mentioned.

Unity of the Spirit, verse 3

Unity is not an option, it is, in fact, a responsibility of every Christian to keep.  This unity is both promoted by peace and results in peace.  When we are at peace with our fellows, being in unity with them is easy.  And the more unity that is existent in a congregation the more peace will be manifested in that congregation.  “Make every effort” is how the NIV translates spoudazontes, which is better rendered “give diligence” or “strive earnestly.”  The NEB reads “spare no effort.”  The implication is that while unity already exists within the Church, it must be, like all blessings of God, acquired by individual members; they must practice it.

2.  The great unities, 4:4-6

There is one body and one Spirit—just as you were called to one hope when you were called— one Lord, one faith, one baptism; one God and Father of all, who is over all and through all and in all.

What follows are seven things which are the essence of the Church’s oneness.  The word “one” is repeated and is emphatic, which, as John Calvin observed, “Christ cannot be divided; faith cannot be rent.”  These great “unities” form a sevenfold description of a threefold unity, a statement of the character of Christian unity and of its trinitarian source.

One body, verse 4.  The “one body” of course is the Church, consisting of Jews and Gentiles.  In the pagan world of Paul’s day, there were many religions and many gods, differing from town-to-town even.

One Spirit, verse 4.  This body, or church, is not man-made or an earth-born institution, but a product of the Holy Spirit, and so Paul  mentions “one Spirit.”  Membership in the Body of Christ comes by the drawing, regeneration, and indwelling of the Holy Spirit, Romans 8:9.

One hope, verse 4.  “Hope” is another of Paul’s favorite words and has already figured in his presentation of the Gospel.  In 2:12, we read:

[R]emember that at that time you were separate from Christ, excluded from citizenship in Israel and foreigners to the covenants of the promise, without hope and without God in the world.

But now, they have an inheritance and the possession of the Holy Spirit is a guarantee or a “foretaste” of its fulfillment.

[I]n order that we, who were the first to hope in Christ, might be for the praise of his glory. And you also were included in Christ when you heard the word of truth, the gospel of your salvation. Having believed, you were marked in him with a seal, the promised Holy Spirit, who is a deposit guaranteeing our inheritance until the redemption of those who are God’s possession—to the praise of his glory.   (1:12-14)

Paul prays that they may come to a fuller understanding of that hope:

I pray also that the eyes of your heart may be enlightened in order that you may know the hope to which he has called you, the riches of his glorious inheritance in the saints. (1:18)

Exactly what that “hope” is not said here, but in 1 John 3:2 John tells his readers that it is the hope of sharing  in the glory of Christ in the place He has prepared for us.

Dear friends, now we are children of God, and what we will be has not yet been made known. But we know that when he appears, we shall be like him, for we shall see him as he is.

Jew or Gentile, the hope is the same for both of them.

One Lord, verse 5.  The pagan world had many gods but Christianity has only one whose claim is absolute.  Christ is our Lord in the sense that He bought us, and we are His.  He owns us, loves us, cares for us, and protects us.  We recognize His  sovereignty, we own Him as our Deliverer, Redeemer, Ruler, the One whom we trust, obey, love, and worship.

One faith, verse 5.  This faith (pistis) is the faith that unites all believers to Christ and to each other.  This “one faith” has been taken in two way by scholars.  First, it refers to our subjective faith:  the acceptance of Christ as our personal Lord and Savior.  Second, it refers to the objective faith:  the Gospel, that is, the doctrines delivered to the saints, Jude 3.  In both senses, believers share a common experience of saving faith and we believe in a common set of doctrines; the Word of God.

One baptism, verse 5.  With respect to “one baptism,” Groshide observes,

There is only one baptism that is received by many (perhaps a number of persons simultaneously).  All the members of the congregation are baptized in the same  manner, and we may well assume, after or in connection with the same sermonic elucidation.

In other words, we are all baptized for the same reason, in obedience to God’s Word.  Again, regardless of one’s background, whether Jew or Gentile, it is by means of baptism that believers were sealed with their Lord (Galatians 3:27).  In baptism, then, lies the evidence that all kinds of people, without any discrimination, share in a common grace (Ridderbos).

One God and Father, verse 6.  To show the unity within the Trinity as the ultimate basis for the unity of the Church, Paul now turns to the Father.  Though mentioned last in the ascending scale of unities, “one God and Father” is really first in terms of cause.  He is the One who has caused the six other unities to come into play.

God is above all:  He is sovereign and supreme.  God is through all:  His power and His presence penetrates the whole Church.  He is in all:  His Spirit indwells all His people.

We all worship before the same God, before the same eternal throne, the same Holy Spirit motivates, empowers, and propels all of us in our worship, and in Christ we are all the children of the same heavenly Father.

The Prison Epistles, Part Five

Applying the Truth, Colossians 3:18-25

Paul begins a new paragraph with 18. Paul had been discussing a very sublime truth: Christ is the only all-sufficient Savior and because of who He is He is the source of all believer’s lives. Paul is now going to show his readers how to apply this truth to some special groups of people, based on what he wrote in verse 17:

And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.

The “in Christ” formula is put into practical use here in human relationships, both personal and social. Christian teachings are different from pagan teachings, and Paul points this out by noting the reciprocal nature of our duties to one another. This idea was revolutionary in Paul’s day, where the men dominated the women, the educated took advantage of the ignorant, and the rich oppressed the poor. Christianity isn’t like that, and here is how Paul demonstrates that.

Some misinterpret these verses, so some basic observations should be made:

  • The emphasis of the whole passage is on duties, not rights.
  • These duties are reciprocal; one party does not have an advantage over another.
  • Christ supplies the ability to carry out the admonitions of this passage.

Observing these guidelines for relationships shows the purpose of Christianity. Paul is not suggesting that we should “live in accordance with Nature,” but rather “to do all in the name of the Lord Jesus.”
Christianity gives us the pattern for all God-glorifying conduct.

“In Christ” provides the reason, the conditions and the quality of our conduct towards one another. Paul singles out a few relationships where we can demonstrate our Christ-likeness:
husband-wife, parents-children, and master-slave.

1. Wife-Husband, 3:18

Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.

Suffragists hate Paul’s use of the word “submit” and because our culture has degenerated over the past half-century, they have successfully changed the wedding vows in the Book of Common Prayer, eliminating the word “obey.” However, that doesn’t change the wording used in Colossians 3:18. This teaching, which is repeated and expanded upon greatly in Ephesians 5:22-33, is consistent with the teaching of the rest of the Bible, so it is not unique to Paul. The reason given for this submission is not because the husband deserves it or because he is better than his wife, it is because such behavior “is fitting in the Lord.”

Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. (Galatians 3:28)

It is appropriate for the wife to submit to the husband. Paul in no way is suggesting that a husband is “the King of his castle” or some kind teapot despot in his home. There is a divine order to be observed in Scripture: Adam was formed first, and even the Son is subject to the Father (1 Corinthians 15:28). Moule writes that submission means “loyalty,” given the way marriage is likened to the union of Christ to the Church.

Three points about this submission:

(1) The wife’s submission is prompted by her husband’s unselfish love.The form of the verb for “submit” (hypotassesthe) indicates that the submission is to be voluntary.

(2) The wife’s submission is not to be forced by her husband. Vaughn writes that this kind of submission is the deference that a loving wife, conscious that a household must have a head, gladly shows to a loving and devoted husband.

(3) This submission is to be “fitting in the Lord.” The word “fitting” means what is “becoming and proper.”
The phrase “in the Lord” tells us that the wife’s action in submission is proper in the way God has ordered His creation.

McGee wrote that:

This is for the purpose of ordering the home. This is not for the purpose of producing a brow-beating husband. I do not believe that God intends for a wife to submit to an unsaved husband who beater her orders her to things contrary to her walk with the Lord.

2. Husband-Wife, 3:19

Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them.

The kind of love a husband should have for his wife is the highest and noblest of all love: agape. This kind of love is also due the Lord. This kind of love will overrule any bitterness, anger, commands and selfishness. The ancient world was a man’s world, and Paul’s admonition to the Colossian men would have been revolutionary and would have raised some eyebrows. But the new life in Christ is a transforming life, and it should transform the home.

Paul gives the husband two responsibilities toward his wife:

(1) “Love (agapate) your wives.” This kind of love has nothing to do with affection or romance, but rather compassion and caring, a deliberate attitude that puts her needs above his own and her well-being above his own.

(2) “Do not be harsh with them.” A husband should be understanding, never cross; considerate, never bitter; and should honor his wife in ever way (1 Peter 3:7). The husband should view his wife as his equal in the sense that she is a “joint heir of the grace of life,” according to 1 Peter 3:7.

3. Children-Parents, 3:20-21

Children, obey your parents in everything, for this pleases the Lord. Fathers, do not embitter your children, or they will become discouraged.

The one obligation Paul puts on children is simply to obey their parents. The word “obey” here means literally “to listen under” or “to look up to.” It must be pointed out here that Paul is writing to Christians within the church. It is as least implied that both parents will be performing their duties noted in the previous verses. Elsewhere in the Bible it is clear that a Christian husband and a father has no right to demand of his family anything that is contrary to the dictates of Scripture. In fact, Paul in Ephesians 6:1 writes that there are limits to this obedience:

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right.

A child’s obedience to their parents is something that is very pleasing for the Lord to see, so much so that in the Decalogue there is a promise of long life attached to it. This obedience, further, is not base on the parents character; rather it is the obligation of the child to be obedient; it is the nature of the parent/child relationship. Surely this puts a heavy responsibility on the shoulders of the parents to continue “in Christ.”

Following the pattern of a wife’s submission to her husband and a husband’s love for his wife, there is a reciprocity here. Children obey their parents, and a father is not to “embitter” their children. This is simple parenting. A father needs to exercise wisdom and restraint as they raise and discipline their children so that their children don’t lose heart. The word “embittered” properly means “do not nag” as a habitual action. The opposite behavior is at least implied: a father should encourage and teach and build up their developing child. As to why fathers are singled out here, most scholars are silent. William Kelly in his lecture on this topic thinks this:

Mothers are not thus exhorted, for as a rule, her general fault is to spoil [her children].

4. Slaves-Masters, 3:22-25

Slaves, obey your earthly masters in everything; and do it, not only when their eye is on you and to win their favor, but with sincerity of heart and reverence for the Lord. Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for men, since you know that you will receive an inheritance from the Lord as a reward. It is the Lord Christ you are serving. Anyone who does wrong will be repaid for his wrong, and there is no favoritism.

Paul spends a lot verses on the proper relationship between “the lowly classes” and their masters. This is probably due to the fact that Onesimus, the runaway slave, was returning as a Christian, carrying this letter to the Colossians.

Some basic observations:

(1) This passage does not condone slavery; it is setting forth a basic Christian economic principle: a just and fair wage for a day’s work.

(2) The “masters” of Paul’s day are the “employers” of today, and the “slaves” are merely the “employees.”
This passage is just one of several areas of responsibility surrounding verses 17 and 23. So the advice given here is an outgrowth of 3:17, not a stand alone teaching.

(3) A slave in Paul’s day was a person actually owned by another, although there were laws governing a “slave owner” could do his property. But a Christian slave was to be considered a brother, according to Philemon 16. It is not Paul’s intention to upset the social order of his day, although in the New Testament there is a precedent for civil disobedience (Acts 5:29), but that is to obey God in spite of local laws.

Accordingly, with verse 17 in view, Paul encourages believing slaves or servants to remain as faithful servants, doing their assigned duties as though the Lord was their owner, which, in fact, He is. John Nielson points out that while not upsetting the social order of his day, by injecting Christian principles into it, Paul is planting the seeds of change, which will eventually transform society.

The reciprocal statement is given in 4:1 and involves how the master treats his slave. Just as a believing servant should be an obedient servant to their master, a believing master must also be obedient to his master, the Lord.

Masters, provide your slaves with what is right and fair, because you know that you also have a Master in heaven.

Abiding principles

No human being becomes obedient by good rules. Rules have their place in an orderly society, but with believers there is another, much higher principle at work in Paul’s teaching. The heart of the believer must be filled with the right motive, and love for others give a sense of duty to them. This is what makes obedience easy.

Everything a believer does, whether in a marriage and family setting or in the workplace, is to be done as if they are doing it for the Lord. It is Christ, not rules. Christ is the Means, the Motive, the Measure, and the Object of all behavior.

As Kelly observed:

Rules are never the power but only the tests of obedience.


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